Conflict resolution
If parents are arguing, a child should not be involved in those arguments. That is detrimental to the development of a child. It is also important for a child to be able to continue seeing their biological parents, even if they do not live with them. For example, if the child is temporarily living with a foster family or if the parents are divorced.
Mediation helps parents to communicate better with each other. So that there is less conflict. During conflict resolution, arrangements are drawn up that everyone must adhere to during the session. If a child lives in a foster family or if the parents are divorced, Youth Care draws up a contact arrangement together with the parent(s).
If parents are unable to communicate effectively with each other, conflict resolution may be beneficial. A professional attempts to improve communication between parents. That is better for a child.
conflict resolution can help:
- If there are frequent arguments.
- In the event of communication problems between parents.
- In the event of domestic violence between the parents.
- In the event parents no longer want to communicate with each other.
- If a divorce is proving difficult.
A child is entitled to a good relationship with both parents. It is harmful for a child when parents argue in the presence of their child. Parents should not involve their child in arguments or speak negatively about the other parent in the presence of the child. It is also important that a child does not witness violence.
During conflict resolution, rules of conduct are drawn up that apply during the conflict resolution sessions. This is done in consultation with both parents. Both parents are always present during the sessions. Conflict resolution lasts a maximum of five sessions.
A child is entitled to contact with their parent(s). And parents are entitled to see their child. Even if a child does not live at home. Sometimes one parent does not want the other parent to see the child. Youth Care is impartial and engages in dialogue with both parents. Together, we draw up a contact arrangement that is best for the child. This contact arrangement specifies the rights and obligations of parents.
